80. "Talk to Your Daughter," Everybody Loves Raymond (2002)
Welcome to the “100 Best Sitcom Episodes of All Time,” a countdown for winter 2012. Each episode will get a separate blog post, counting backward toward No. 1. A list of the programs revealed so far is here and an introduction to the project is here.
UPDATE: Damn it! As soon as I wrote this post, my RSS feed spat out a new essay by the A.V. Club's Todd VanDerWerff on Everybody Loves Raymond, including a mention of this episode. A coincidence, but maybe also a sign that I should be writing more about shows that people have never heard of, or that they really, really despise. Beginning tomorrow: "Top 100 Sitcom Episodes of All Time as Chosen by Armond White."
Hey, it's the sitcom that all the cool kids hate! And on the same list as Community and Parks and Recreation! (Be patient...)
Raymond hit a lot of the same notes over and over during its excessive 210-episode run, but its best installments are as well-written and funny as any British series that had a "12 and done" run. Still, it's got a lot of haters. It was the last really successful multi-camera broadcast sitcom, so it's a particular target of people who just don't like that format. It's not about smart urbanites, but it's not about noble working-class people either (its characters probably shop at WalMart even though they have enough money for Trader Joe's), so it took several years for Hollywood to start throwing Emmys at it.
Most non-fans simply say they don't like the characters, who are loud, whiny, and constantly arguing. Maybe you need to have grown up in a home with some of that behavior (and have since made your peace with it) to get some enjoyment out of Raymond. I get that Raymond scripts can be wearying, but I see the characters as fighting because they genuinely want to preserve their extended family — even if none of them will let go of the notion that he or she is the only one who knows how to do it. (In contrast, the constantly bickering characters on the gleefully nasty "Family" sketches on The Carol Burnett Show are selfish through and through.)